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Jan. 12/06, 09:26 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Dayton Ohio
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Rep Power: 8 | | | Haha, hell yea, the best show of all time in my opinion. |
Jan. 12/06, 11:22 PM
|  | I <3 to touch myself | | Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: UK - South East
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Rep Power: 43 | | | Ok, well Sometimes when your young and you cant comunicate foreplay isnt something that you should "keep up" its something you do to highten the sexual experiance. so if your not that good at it, shes will stop being turned on and get bored. if you are good at it then do it for as long as she wants.
Even now some of the girls I have been with after a few mins of foreplay, they wanna "get to it" cos they dont wana wait. Im just passing on some info, I know everyone is diffrent.
how old are you by the way.
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Jan. 12/06, 11:36 PM
|  | Junior Member | | Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Princeton, NJ
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Rep Power: 13 | | Hell, if she is going to ditch you for it, forget foreplay, forget affection, shut off your mind and become a zombie and give it a shot..Energizer Bunny?  |
Jan. 14/06, 08:26 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Calgary, AB (That's in Canada)
Posts: 130
Rep Power: 12 | | PC Muscle exercises work. If not in time for this one, for the next. You have to realize she's not likely your soulmate.
They work by allowing you to prevent yourself from ejaculating when you orgasm, which will allow some men to stay hard and continue performing and experiencing sexual pleasure. However, working up to that kind of control requires discipline and dedication....consider adding a few reps of this **** workout to your lower body regimen. Sorry, couldn't resist.
Stop and Go exercises will also work over the long term. Your body is a machine of habit.
Here's my advice to you, however. Stop being so damn desperate. It's the pressure that's killing you.
Why do you feel you need to beat yourself up over scrambling for this girl's leftovers? She doesn't sound like much to me. Honestly, what is SHE doing to increase YOUR pleasure? Is she worried about your relationship with her? Has she made efforts to rectify the situation, or simply sat back and expected you to leap through hoops to win her approval on her terms is the question you need to ask yourself. Part of not being so damn desperate would be to kick her to the curb and find someone who appreciates you more for who you are and not for your sexual endurance.
However, if you can't bring yourself to do that I recommend getting some sort of desensitizer..the stuff that comes in condoms is crap. Use it a couple times to take away the anxiety (I mean really use it..until you collapse from exhaustion and fall asleep) and make her think you're a sex god. Maybe then she'll be willing to go the extra mile with you. Then again, maybe not. In my experience about 10% of women orgasm from vaginal intercourse anyway. Do what you can, accept the results, and move on, always aiming for better. What else can you do?
Just do me a favor and have some confidence, regardless of what happens. Dr. Love out. 
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Jan. 14/06, 10:10 PM
|  | We are all one | | Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Santa Maria, CA
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Originally Posted by aliquisdeus Here's my advice to you, however. Stop being so damn desperate. It's the pressure that's killing you.
Why do you feel you need to beat yourself up over scrambling for this girl's leftovers? She doesn't sound like much to me. Honestly, what is SHE doing to increase YOUR pleasure? Is she worried about your relationship with her? Has she made efforts to rectify the situation, or simply sat back and expected you to leap through hoops to win her approval on her terms is the question you need to ask yourself. Part of not being so damn desperate would be to kick her to the curb and find someone who appreciates you more for who you are and not for your sexual endurance. |
Hell yeah, that's some great advice. |
Jan. 18/06, 08:41 PM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Mar 2005
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Rep Power: 10 | | | ok, go then come, then switch condoms and just go for eher pleasure |
Jan. 20/06, 07:16 AM
| | Registered User | | Join Date: Sep 2005
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Rep Power: 8 | | | Dang so many new posts @_@! Sorry for this late reply, I've been so busy lately
with work/college ect.
Steak - Lol, hmmmmmmm, welll well well, she has liqour at her house now and I plan to use that to my advantage. She says she got it to take advantage of me @_@...
Jenn - Hmm, yeah it's just that my main problem is lasting in the bed, and with
finding out what pleasures her I plan to find that out by trying new things and
finding more ways of foreplay. But because I'm going to have to talk to her about
what pleasures her, the only reason I haven't asked yet is because I don't want her
to think I'm only thinking of sex ya know? But when that opportunity comes up, I'll
definently take a stab at it =]..
NoBody - Yeah your right, if I find out she did mess with another guy I'll be done
definently with her. Not that we're going out but we are definently close enough
and it's established that we wont mess around.
Manofkent - I'm sure she wouldn't be bored, I would just like more foreplay Ideas to
run with. And I'm good at foreplay, that's one of my good traits. But I'm sure
googling it will bring me to some site that can help. And I'm 20 by the way.
aliquisdeus - Heyy thanks for the indepth and very much feedback, I appreciate it
=].
[Answers to a few posts]
The Girl - It isn't like she said anything badly to me about me not lasting
long, I just wanna make sure that I can please her better than the other man can if
there is another, but I see that it mostly can't be done through intercourse. But
we've had long talks now because I wasn't gonna have bad communication for much more
longer. So thing's are looking upwards right now.
My Anxiety - I'm not really nervous, though my heart beats fast. Someone
else told me it's most likely because I'm holding my breath without realizing.
Which could be true, kind of like when working out I guess. I'm not very heart
broken about not lasting long, it's just I want to fix this and improve myself you
know? Or else maybe it could lead to anxiety lol, but since I've heard it by so
many people I wont try to beat myself up incase it does happen again.
What I'm going to do - Is by making sure I use a condom, plus to make sure I can come twice, maybe use two condoms, or get Durex Performax Condoms. Extend foreplay and find out more ways to heighten the experience. In the meantime do my PC Flex muscle excersizes.
Thanks everybody for all of the feedback I REALLLYYYY appreciate the help and your time. Sorry for the few I haven't replied back to I'm just on the run before school starts..
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